Complaining can be a destructive habit. Complaining makes you the victim and not the victor. Some people are chronic complainers and to them the glass is always half empty and not half full. When it rains they talk about how gloomy life and how wet it is. When it’s hot and dry they complain about the heat and dusty it is. Constant complaining makes things look worse than they are, it becomes a habit and in the end everything looks bad and nothing is good.
Complaining makes you and others despondent, it kills innovation and creativity. There are two ways to complain. One is constructive complaining which is aimed at improving something to avert future problems. Constructive complaining is when you see a problem in your home or work environment and you talk to whoever can do something about it. Constructive complaining is about saying things in a way that leads to a problem being addressed rather than leading to more complaining. Destructive complaining is negative, malicious and negative. It seeks to amplify a situation, create confusion, and is toxic to the environment. Show me a very unhappy person and I will show you a life full of complaints. We should avoid the constant complaining, grumbling and moaning, where we’re always complaining about the same things, to the same people, in the same way, day in and day out. If you want to live a healthy, fruitful, progressive, and result oriented life, stop complaining and start doing something about the problem or challenge. Any time you find yourself complaining check your motive and when you conclude that your motive is not positive, keep the complaint to yourself. You will be doing the work environment a lot of good or doing your relations much good to keep your mouth shut.
Here is a simple suggestion to try out. This will make a significant difference in your life and also improve your attitude, behavior and outlook. It will also impact positively the people around you. Go 24 hours without complaining (not even once) then watch your life start changing. When you succeed go another day and another day till you trun your life around.When you change, the results